I'm glad more people are recognizing that being fat isn't a problem of being lazy and eating Cheetos off your chest all day, but it's also not always a medical condition.10. I don't know about you, but I can put two tablespoons of dressing on a piece of lettuce at home. But if dudes continue to be dismissed when they try to talk about body issues, it's just going to make us care more, not less. "I like/love you even though you're fat." This is something that many dudes I know have explicitly heard.
It goes back to the idea that if you're dating someone fat that their body size is the first barrier to attraction as opposed to just another body type.
Chubby guys should put hygiene above everything else.
A scruffy look with messy hair can look stylish on a skinny guy but it may look scruffy and dirty in the real sense on a fat guy.
We are not going to go into the nitty gritties of fashion and style tips for chubby guys in this post.
But one of the most vital things to remember is that guys who are fat or chubby should not wear tight clothes.
"Hey, big guy." Oh my god, there is nothing worse than being referred to as "big guy" when you're a big guy. And when you try to de-emphasize looks as much as possible, it makes people feel like you're with them despite their weight, which is kind of a problem. "You're a guy, so you'll lose that weight quick if you want to." I've actually lost a lot of weight in the past year by going on a medical fast and eating 800 calories per day, but I'm lucky. I don't know what you're trying to tell me here, but why you gotta let me know I look like a "fatter version"? Plenty of fat dudes do yoga and aerobics and jog a mile (I do it by running from zombies! And the first thing people say when we express our frustration with our weight? I don't want to go through exactly what my shopping experience is like, but if you've ever seen that episode of where Ross tries to get back into a pair of leather pants, it's just like that. Lots of stuff contributes to being fat other than a thyroid disorder.
Some of the key things to watch out for include carrying a great posture, smiling, using deliberate hand movements while speaking and maintaining a positive body language in general.