If it’s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. Pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share. Don’t say you want to see her again if you are full of sh*t. And don’t do it because you are looking for a mommy. Don’t keep pestering her because it will come to an unhappy conclusion or blocking you from her site. Many of us are confident, used to being alone and on our own, so don’t feel that we want to be with you every minute of the day, because we don’t. Many of us had much experience with BS and we know when it’s coming at us.
And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself.
Men have biological clocks, too, if you didn't already know. Menopause seems to be the cause of many failed marriages (or at least that's what some men I've talked with blame it on).